Enough w the Mean Girl Stuff

I was going to let this one slide and just let it go because I feel everyone’s getting sucked into situations from social media that aren’t the healthiest. For me it’s a job but at times it’s a job I really don’t like. So like I said, I wasn’t going to feed into it and just leave this be. I don’t go on TikTok and look through videos. I don’t go on Instagram and look through videos. I do my own research along with Ki and we research very hard, and I am lucky to be able to work somewhere that I have grown to have many sources. But for some reason I opened up my TikTok, and there is a video saying that Hailey Bieber got costume of the year for her photo shoot as the mean, girl. So I took the opportunity to look, and I saw several videos, praising Hailey for being a mean girl. Thinking it was funny.

I believe that looks, and the outside that you have is a blessing. And I could say, I feel I was very blessed. But to me, I always thought of it as a blessing not something to use as a weapon against somebody else that was overweight, had a disability, had a disease, wasn’t pretty, or anything else that was not positive. And it absolutely saddens me for anyone who thinks that it’s funny to be made fun of. Or let’s just say her name Selena Gomez. Put yourself in this girl‘s position. People are saying that she caused it, she’s the drama, she deserves it. She was in a relationship with Justin , they came to a point where I actually had seen them together in March and they seem very much in love like they were working on a relationship. I actually said to myself I think they’re going to make it this time. I heard that he asked her to marry her and she said that they needed to work on things. I also heard that Hailey was calling him, sending pictures And that’s their business. But being in this business since 2009 with my first article in 2010 being published, I was able to see a lot that was going on. These group of girls did everything imaginable to break up Selena and Justin.

I’m not saying that is right or wrong that’s Selena is still hurt, or it still has a bad taste in her mouth, or can’t let this go. But I would like any woman to put herself in her situation, where you had a man that asked you to marry him, and you think you’re working on things and you have a girl that just won’t go away. I’m not saying you can’t fight for a man. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, that’s their business. But I am saying that Selena has gone through hell since 2012 and to blame her on a toxic relationship is crazy when you don’t know their relationship. You read what they have written in publication. What you read or see in social media. And you watch on TMZ and any of those other publications. But these publications are endorsements to make people especially celebrities look good when they’ve done something wrong.

So to make fun of any person or think it’s OK saddens me. To make fun of their weight, for any woman it’s heart wrenching. And you all can hate on me because you’re not paying my bills. Tiktok is so toxic. It’s a bunch of people who are not reporters or journalist, I would say most of that I see. You just got on the platform at a certain time and became popular and now you feel like you have the right to say what you want, which you can. But I do believe that if you’re going to take this platform that you should do your research. And make your own sources that you call and that you can trust and do the right thing. Because I know that if you go to my page I have been 100% accurate and I’m proud of that and I don’t jump on the bandwagon. Please do have a conscience that you’re talking about someone. And at least when you say something about someone I hope that you’re not saying some thing just for views.

And please don’t praise any celebrity for bad behavior. Especially if you don’t know what exactly is going on behind closed doors. There’s got to be a reason, I know the reason, why Hailey is still so bothered, and obsessed, with Selena. And there’s definitely more to the story then a bunch of pictures, or videos on Instagram, or Tiktok. Much Love ❤️

Party Time for Justin(what the f is going on?)

I just wanted to recap the last few days, maybe the last week. When Hailey came back from Paris, everyone believed that there was going to be some kind of separation, and it wasn’t. As I told you before he has an album dropping soon. As soon as he feels confident that the album will do all, he’ll drop it. But he’s definitely out and about being seen. And he’s having a blast which is absolutely fabulous to see that.

As I said, before, I believe that, Justin wants to do his music at its own time, slide in on other people jamming or playing like he did at the party. But I don’t believe he is ever going to do a full set in a concert. I don’t believe he will tour again unless he’s in desperate need of money. And he’s talking about the residency, which I don’t even think that he will make that. Because the residency while you are active, it’s pretty grueling. I think Justin is happy, just regaining his youth.

When Justin popped out hugging on Hailey with the wedding band I think that everybody was thrown back a bit, including Selena. It seems as if he wears his wedding band has all of his other pieces of jewelry which is optional. One other thing that I have noticed is where Hailey was always in for throwing a big smile as she was happy and in love for the paparazzi, from the looks on her face for the last several weeks, or months, she’s now with the big boo-boo face. I posted a set where they were holding hands and it’s almost like she didn’t want to hold his hand. And another post he seems to be dragging Hailey like she didn’t want to be there. Well who would want to go to a party when you date of going to bail and be the center of attention all night. I can see where fans might think it’s cute to be called to stage to get a kiss. But as a relationship counselor, no girl wants to spend her night without her date. And why do I think that this goes on because she allows this behavior. If you allow any pattern, it’s hard to break.

Since Paris, Selena has kept rather quiet. And what I hear, as I said before is, she is regrouping herself in the thought of not being a single woman any longer. She had a good inkling that someone might be coming back her way and making good for what he’s been saying the last five years. But once again it did not happen. With everything going on in the world, especially the war, it gives her a good time to lay low and get herself together. Mind you she’s always busy. But she’s done that purposely, to keep herself busy. For one her single came out, and in Paris she was glowing. Selena seemed to really be taken care of herself and looking absolutely fabulous.

So once again, this cycle continues. People asked me how long was his honeymoon going to last between Justin and Hailey and I said a couple weeks. He’s already displaying his famous Selena tattoo proudly. But there are several more tattoos that Justin as gotten for Selena. And the forever tattoo that he got for Hailey, he reposted it on Selena’s birthday. We are going to do a tattoo post and article for members only. We hope to see you there 🩷

Why Didn’t Hailey Go to Halloween Party? Kind of Sad 😞

I just wanted to jump on and give you guys a quick article. Justin attended the Halloween party of the year that Cindy Crawford’s and her husband Rande Gerber hosted. All the celebrities came out to celebrate Halloween at the Casamigos party. Justin attended, looking very happy and having a ball. But his baby girl Hailey was missing. Nowhere to be found. Justin was laughing, dancing, mingling, he even made his way up to the DJ booth.

It’s awesome to see Justin having such a good time. Although, as a woman, and a relationship counselor, I find it very hard that it would feel good as a wife to be left home. And I don’t say that in a bad way, or in a mean way. I know that she could’ve been with a million people, doing a million different things but the only thing and the only place she would want be is at that Halloween party with Justin.

I heard from my sources that the reason why Justin didn’t bring her was because they fight many times during parties. And he wanted to enjoy himself as well as Justin feels that he has the right to do what he wants as a man. But when you’re married, you are a couple. That means it’s you and your wife for the rest of your life. Yes, you are an individual with your own likings, your own doings, and your own interests. But leaving your wife home and going to a major Halloween party has got to be a shitty feeling. And I sympathize and have empathy for Hailey.

The only thing that I do not get is how magazines have become endorsements. The first day that this party was on all the publications it was about the Casamigos Halloween party that Rande Gerber, and Cindy Crawford hosted. Now keep in mind as I said, before Justin did attend, and he was in the pictures that came from the Getty images. He, along with all the other attendees were named, and pictures were taken.

This is where magazines are now endorsements. Hailey who did not attend this huge party was not included in any of the articles from this party. Yet almost a day later there is an article just about Justin, but more so the article is about Hailey. What did Hailey have to do with his party? Well, this article somehow ended about Hailey’s Rhode line and her YouTube show. What she wore and how she was in a vampire costume and had the Halloween spirit. When I first clicked on vampire costume that she was wearing, it brought me to her skincare line. I was a little confused so I clicked on it again and it brought me to her skincare line again. So I sent it to Ki and we did it again and it sent us to her instagram page. But she blocked me. So I couldn’t see. Which I’m fine with that.

The point being is why did his Halloween party turn out to be an endorsement of what Hailey Bieber is doing. Was it that she was hurt, maybe embarrassed? There was no reason given why he left her home. Especially last year it was weeks of the Halloween spirit for Hailey Bieber. Baldwin. In conclusion, I’m just wondering why they didn’t have a spread on the people that were there and what their significant others or the children were doing. Why was it so important to have an article what Hailey was doing for the month? Just a thought. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The Trio in Confusion🤷🏻‍♀️

People keep asking over and over exactly why does Justin look happier, as well as why did he say…Where’s my baby girl the other day as they were walking? They don’t understand why or how Justin can come out looking a little bit happier, a little bit more bubbly, And definitely playing it up for the cameras. Do you see there’s been many more cameras lately with Justin hamming it up. And Hailey seems to be taking the quiet route this time around. So why the change?

Sources says that Justin realizes that his popularity is dropping, and although he acts like he doesn’t care, he cares, extremely! Especially when his new music is going to drop sometime in the near future. Sources say that he’s waiting for his popularity to increase from the negativities that he’s been getting all around. Don’t get me wrong he still absolutely adored by many. But between him, not taking care of himself, looking like he’s always under the influence of some thing and looking miserable with his wife his popularity seems to have dropped. Justin wants to feel secure with his fame to be able to sell his album and of course he’s hoping to get some more number ones. He’s afraid by the backlash he’s been getting lately that his music and himself won’t be as welcomed as he usually is to people.

So where Hailey was the one always calling an agency most of the time it would be backgrid, to stage them, looking happy and in love. But Justin did such a amazing job of acting miserable, will he be able to keep up the charade? When they go out, it’s as if they’re taking a little mini photo shoot. But it always tended to be a flop. So now it seems like Justin is smiling a bit more and Hailey has the boo-boo face on. So what’s going on? With this couple, trio? I’ve never seen a couple looking like they’re falling in and out of love as much as these two. But why? Is it because there’s the third person that’s never left this relationship or was it the third person was the main character in the scenario, but the understudy somehow took the main characters role and messed everything up. But what I hear what you see for the cameras is not exactly what’s going on behind closed doors.

Back to what I was saying… It wasn’t messed up for the understudy, but it seem to make things way out of whack for the two main characters. And I’m hoping you know who are the main characters. For those who don’t that would be Justin and Selena. I put up several post this week And I would like to explain them. It seems that Selena’s friends have come to her side to uplift her, but why? Well, I heard from a very good source was there was no mistake. Was Selena putting on her song, Justin putting on his video with Sza, as well as all the codes that Selena left in her single soon video. Because, from what I heard, she may have had the idea that Justin was coming back her way. Oh, but we all know that it wasn’t going to be that easy.

So there was a big choice to be made, stay and promote your album, because it would look very messy to drop an album while you’re going through a divorce. So here Justin comes with a new wedding band and a big smile and his baby girl by his side. But now she seems to be with the boo-boo face these days. So why was it just a few weeks ago for the longest time they would have to call the agency maybe one maybe two photographers will come out. And all you hear is a simple click, a couple clicks. But all of a sudden this past week so there’s clicking all around, paparazzi’s all on top of them. Even Hailey has people asking her to take a picture with her. But it’s an illusion. I was at the Wendy Williams, when Justin first came out, and nobody knew who he was, nobody wanted him on the show. But Wendy Williams was nice enough and said OK I’ll have Justin on my show, but the problem is is that nobody knew who he was. So no girls showed up to scream at him, so she had to have her team go rally up a bunch of young girls. Sure you’ve heard this before and he kicked and spit on her staff. Yes he was young but he was a little rebellious boy., and some things don’t seem to change. I was supposed to get some words with him, but after what I saw I opted out.

People, so many people have asked, is what they’re showing real, PR, or is Justin confused? So I looked into it and I found out that it’s probably all 3. He did not have some kind of epiphany and all of a sudden to grow this undying love for Hailey, sadly. But I hear he doesn’t want to be alone. He like that she’s there when he’s done taking his time out away from her. I do think that’s sad. But I do think Justin’s also confused. He has a person he’s deeply in love with and he has someone who he is committed to as well as loyal. Until he figures out what he’s heart truly wants, there’s going to be this trio.

I do want to add that I know that Selena says she’s happy with where’s she’s at. She’s grown into a beautiful woman, who is very respected in the industry. But I do think she feels as if she has unfinished business. And she does. She had the man who asked her to marry her pretty much ripped out of her life. If it was done by his doing I would let this be. But from so many sources I have heard, he was under the influence of recreational medication, and shouldn’t of signed anything. Especially not a marriage certificate. And how they did it is what is so upsetting to me. To manipulate Justin into this life, instead of helping him to clean up and get himself together. So that he could make his own decision of who he wanted to be with. Ki and I do hours and hours of research to find out the truth and it’s f hard.

If anyone wants to know why Ki and I are a bit hard on Hailey is because from what we’ve learned is that they took that right away from Justin when he was sick. But as a relationship counselor I do know people in love do crazy things. I don’t want to pick on anyone I just want to tell you the information that we find to be true and accurate. And I can’t stress enough how many hours a day we put into doing this. People actually ask and want the truth to come out for some reason people think their story needs to be told. The true story. I believe that they all have their niche in this world and we don’t all do the right thing all the time. But messing with the fate is messing with Gods work. And in the end I hope things come out exactly how they should be.

Power Couple? Really? Pt 1

Justin and Hailey have been trying to become a power couple since the day they got married. The problem was nobody knew who Hailey really was. Now, don’t go all crazy. I’m not saying, by any means, she didn’t have some sort of following. I’m just saying that she didn’t bloom till she was married to Justin and that’s a fact. They thought that Selena and Justin were going to be the power couple, but Selena wasn’t really feeling what Justin’s camp wanted of them. So Selena already had dipped out bringing Justin with her. As I said before they didn’t like that so Plan B came into action. Plan B was Hailey. And she was absolutely thrilled to be second choice.

Most people wouldn’t be exactly thrilled. But when you’re looking for the fame and the money, and being with the superstar, and there is a pretty cute boy., that definitely helps. She already had a tremendous infatuation with Justin, and Selena. Let’s not get off track because I’m going to try to keep this rather short. So you have a couple and one of them is very much on board to be a power couple. Well, the other one really couldn't give a crap. And I am guessing you know which one is which. But the problem is one bailed on his tour, and hasn’t been looking well in the public’s eye. Of course, we wish Justin the best. He just hasn’t really done much to win the popularity of his fans lately.

Ki, who works really close to me, is fabulous in helping me do research, and just finding little tidbits to add to the information that I get from my sources. I have to say she’s been absolutely 💯 fabulous. She has actually seen comments, where people were still asking if they were going to get their money back from the ticket that they purchased from the tour that Justin had canceled. As I said before, he never apologized, he never addressed the situation. I have medical issues as well as lupus where I get IV I G infusions monthly, and I still would have a moment to apologize to my fans who I left, completely stranded and hanging.

But Justin feels that he doesn’t owe anybody anything. He feels that he performed for them and that’s what his fans paid for nothing else. He doesn’t realize that the fans and the people who are still rooting for this man are the ones that keep him relevant. Relevant is what Justin and Hailey are striving for right now because Justin is going to release music and he’s actually a little nervous about how his music is going to be received. Before he really showed everybody that he really didn’t give a shit about his fans, because I honestly think he didn’t care. I think he became a bit cocky honestly. For goodness sake, he puts himself on the level of Michael Jackson. Michael Jackson had his own style of dancing, and his own way of singing, he didn’t even need a choreographer. He just did his own thing, while his brothers were behind him doing the moves that the choreographer had made. One of the things that Michael Jackson also didn’t need… was a swag coach. Because Michael Jackson, well he had his own swag going on. But let’s keep it going.

I want to keep this very short, but when you’re in the spotlight, it’s very hard to always do the right thing. But many people are just good people and do the right thing. They don’t just do the right thing when they have an agency following them around to make them look like a good person or look like they’re in love or on a day-long walk like they’re a power couple. Because if they truly are a power couple like Beyoncé and Jay-Z, they don’t flaunt their business. In fact, Beyoncé wanted to keep her life very private for the longest time, and did. If you come out, all of a sudden trying to look like you’re a husband in love he treats his wife with such joy and happiness meanwhile, you’ve looked miserable most of your five years of marriage people won't buy it. Regardless, you have an agenda so you need to call an agency to make you look like a good person.

You have to remember something, especially in today’s society, and social media. Someone’s always there to see, to film, and to click away and snap a picture. And that tells the truth. Justin has a pap on him, and the photographer did not capture one picture of Justin giving the homeless man money. If I was blessed enough to have way more than I needed, I could surely give the man more than five dollars. So for Backgrid to say, Justin was so generous to give the homeless man five dollars he should be ashamed of himself. Backgrid only says exactly what you want them to say, and what you want people to see. They’re just the middleman. Everything is set up prior to them posting.

So wherever that homeless man is today I hope and I’m sure that God is watching out for him. And I hope that there are better people out there that would spare him the five dollars. Or even more. Because the truth of the matter is, Justin did not give him five dollars, not a penny. And I find that truly sad.

Much love ♥️