The Biebers Yo Yo Relationship! (Many of us have it)

Has many people know I start it off writing relationship articles way back in 2009. I start it off on Instagram reaching about 75 million followers. At that time that was actually pretty substantial. But getting burnt out doing it alone especially I let it fall and let my numbers dwindle. For some reason this year I felt a whole new burst of energy to start back my Instagram page. Wow. It was a whole new kingdom. I mean you didn’t even need to have a degree to talk about what you want to talk about. You could say whatever you wanted just like you are a professional. And photoshopping was on the whole different level. Yet I still feel the interest to get back on to put in my thoughts about relationships. I was doing pretty well and I have been watching TikTok throughout the pandemic not thinking that maybe I should join in because people could probably use some relationships advice during the pandemic.

It wasn’t till the beginning of this year I believe that I just felt the urge to bring my work back online. That’s when I had the opportunity to shift gears a little bit and find out information about this trio, which is Justin, Hailey and Selena. I knew what was going on throughout the years, but diving deep and really see what was going on is when I realize how crazy this trio situation really is. It seems to loop and loop around and around. But there is a follower of mine out there that asked if I would write an article about a yo-yo relationship. And although I know, I have written several articles that were published about a yo-yo relationship. I don’t have the time to go sorting through to find them.

So what I thought I would do would be to combine this trio because they certainly do have a yo-yo relationship and explain how many people are living with a yo yo relationship. So for those who don’t know what a yo-yo relationship is, let me explain. It’s basically when you’re in a relationship where you’re feeling as they love me, they love me not. It could also be, I love them, I love them not. It can also be, to the point where you might even say, I hate you, I love you. And that’s where I believe Mr. and Mrs. Bieber are at.

Why do I think so? First off you see their faces. First it was Justin who always had an angry boo-boo face on. And more recently you see Hailey with an angry boo-boo face. Secondly, we all know that Justin needs his time out without Hailey, and Hailey has excepted this behavior. We have heard and seen of things Justin has done to Hailey that haven’t been so nice. Slamming the car door on her, skating away from her so quickly without a care where the poor girl fell. Telling her on a live not to touch him. These are just a couple of examples that would make a person question their love as well as question if the person they are with loves them.

So when this person is nice, you think to yourself, I love them. Yeah, they’re sweet. I want to be with them forever, maybe even have a baby with them. And let me say this goes both ways for Justin and Hailey or any relationship. Then there’s the time that they’re brutally mean, and you say to yourself, I can’t take them, I don’t want to be with them anymore. They’re mean to me. You might even say I want to leave, I want someone else. But because it’s a constant swing of up and down. it keeps you in a confused state. And I believe from the research am doing, and my sources, that’s exactly what’s going on between Justin and Hailey.

I believe that this is Justin’s personality. I believe that he treated Selena the same way. It’s almost like when the persons good they’re so extremely loving and caring. But when the person is bad, they’re horribly disgusting. And this can drive you to be so confused, as well as you don’t know if you should leave them or not because when their good they’re amazingly good. But when they’re bad they can be horribly bad, and you are so confused you don’t know if they are good or bad. So most likely in many relationships we end up staying longer than we should because of the good. For some reason we want to believe in the good.

I’m not here to bash Justin, Hailey, or Selena. I’m just explaining what a yo-yo relationship is, and why people stay. This is not just for this trio. This is for anyone in a relationship that sounds like what I just explained. It’s unhealthy and if you don’t put a stop to it, it just continues. And this is what we are seeing is two people which is Justin and Hailey in a cycle of I love you, I love you not. Yes there are things that have Justin stuck in this relationship. As well as the witchcraft, the manipulation, the substance-abuse, and a person who doesn’t or may be afraid to be alone. Stays!

A yo-yo relationship in the long run is very unhealthy and most definitely comes to an end. It’s a form of abuse and it can make it a person depressed. Which I truly believe from what I hear and what I see that both Justin and Hailey are depressed. I’m not there, Dr, so I’m only going by what I hear from my sources and what I see. And I’ve seen over five years now of chaos and not in a good way. And because Justin doesn’t want to let go of Selena and Selena doesn’t want to let go of Justin. It makes this marriage a trio which is a whole other topic.

So how do you get out of a yo-yo relationship? And should you get out of a yo-yo relationship? All I can say is that if you’re not happy in any relationship that is an unhealthy relationship and in the long run will bring you much heartache if it isn’t already. So how do you stop this up-and-down relationship? It might be a good thing to see a therapist. But then seeing a therapist, you have to be really truly willing to change. the most importantly, you have to truly love the person you’re with that you’re willing and wanting to change. Saying to yourself that you don’t want to be alone or being in denial that this person does really love me. You really got to step out of the relationship with a clear mind and put your thoughts together. Next look at your relationship and ask yourself does this person truly love me? Am I happy with this person? Does this person make me happy?

I am sure that you’ve heard this 1 million times but I bet you haven’t done it and if you’ve done it it doesn’t last very long. But I’m gonna give you a little homework for those in the situation. Write a list of all the good that this person does, you’re with, that you love. Write a list of all the bad things that this person does. Then I want you to read the list. What side is longer? The happier side? The more miserable side? Fold this paper now and keep it with you and when you’re feeling unsure I want you to take this paper out and look at this list. If you have to add to the list all means add to the list. But look at this list frequently because within this list you have your answers.

You only have one life you don’t want to live your life miserable for any reason. I wrote this awesome article that was published. It was called, “are you living or simply existing” I think it was. It was one of my favorite articles that I’m going to pull it up and post it.

Do I hear from my sources that Hailey and Justin are deeply in love? I hate to say this, but my answer is no. I do think they have a commitment to each other and that’s why they stay together. And I do think that the yo-yo relationship that they have contributes to their commitment and staying. But does that mean that they have a healthy relationship? Or is it if they’re afraid to move on? Justin because he’s afraid to be alone, and I believe from what I hear that Hailey doesn’t want to look like the loser to Selena. But if Justin and Hailey both are unhappy, they both are alone and losing.

MUCH LOVE ♥️

Body Language Says it All

I know a lot of influencers are feeling that talking about Justin and Hailey, or Justin, Hailey and Selena is repetitive. Well, that is because it is. Looking into it as I said before there’s a pattern and this pattern seems to be one huge cycle that just repeats itself. But looking into it and talking to my sources, I find that Justin is how can I explain this? Justin is living in a fog. A little bit of medication, a little bit of ritual work, as well as this is Justin‘s personality.

Although I think from what I’ve heard that he does love, Hailey. Not in the way he loves Selena, but he loves her enough to not be ready to let go. So this is the cycle… Justin spends time with Hailey and for the longest time he’s been miserable. And we have absolutely seen this in almost every video and picture that’s been out in the last couple years. Recently, he came out with a whole new attitude as I said before when he had his pep talk to stay in his marriage with the people from the church that he respects enough to do what they ask. And what did they ask of Justin? To give Hailey the opportunity that he really never gave her.

But what’s weird is that Justin can’t commit to Hailey. Who knows if Justin can commit to one woman no matter who she is. I mean no matter if you like Selena or not, he couldn’t be faithful to her. He doesn’t seem able to be faithful with Hailey. Who says that if he was to go back to Selena he would he be able to just be with her? Or would he still have the need to cheat? But I have to say the way Justin has treated Hailey is a bit worse than he treated Selena.

He always seem to embrace Selena. He always grabbed her hand, and couldn’t stop kissing her face. He was always very protective and affectionate with her. And although there are things he did that he knows were wrong and he’s not proud of himself. But the way he treated Selena was far better than the way he treats Hailey. But I do think that Justin and Hailey at this current moment are trying to reconnect to see if they can have a better marriage. Even if he’s miserable, he’s actually putting in somewhat of an effort.

I personally don’t think that in the long run it’s going to work, unless Hailey is willing to have a baby. I did hear when Justin was on his way out for good, she said that she would have a baby. Justin, wanting to be a father, so desperately that he clung onto that hope. But honestly if I were him, I would be going to those doctors appointments. Why? Because I can see Hailey telling Justin that she can’t get pregnant so that they would need a surrogate. And not because somethings wrong with her that she can’t have a baby, but because she doesn’t want to have a baby.

I do think that Hailey does everything and anything she has to do to keep this man. So in psychology, we learn about body language. So I would like to do body language analysis, on Justin and Hailey before and now. And then let’s to Justin and Selena early on, and right before they broke up. Let’s see the difference of how Justin treated the two women that he loved in his life. I mean he asked both of them to marry him. It was in a two month span of time. So let’s see, if we can see the difference. And if there is a difference. I bet this will answer a lot of questions. Because body language never lies. It doesn’t lie to the person as in this case it would be Hailey. She can feel how Justin feels about her by his body language. As well as Selena could feel as well. I do think this will explain a lot.

I know that a lot of people put out the versions of them being happy. But in psychology, we learned so much about body language. The tilt of the head, the position of the body, there’s just so much to analyze about a couples body language. It can actually tell you, if this is love. So let’s dive in and see what we can learn. And I like to see what you think about the body language.

For all the members that did the zoom question and answers meet and greet, Ki and I had a blast. Hope to do another this coming week, or weekend. I think that we’re all having so much fun. I hope that we keep enjoying and continue growing. As always much love.♥️

Baby Makes Three? 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don’t know how many times since I started posting about this trio has Hailey been in the news for being pregnant? The last time she even joked about it for almost a full month. Hiding her tummy, holding her tummy, even getting herself in a frenzy of how she was going to get out of keeping everybody on her every last move wondering if she was pregnant or not. Then she almost didn’t know how to get out of this mess she created.

While everybody seem to be going, along with a goofiness of her being pregnant, I just has to research, went to my sources and found out. She was absolutely not pregnant. So let’s go back to the beginning of Justin and Hailey’s union. They got engaged May of 2018, married in September 2018 with the hopes of starting a family immediately. And this is one of the main reasons that just pisses me off. To allow a man to think you were going to have his baby, we’re talking immediately. Then to get to the altar when this man should be in rehab, but this group of people joined together to get Justin to sign on that doted line, that said I Do.

Granted, Justin needed to get off of his substances that he was taking. Been there and sadly I lost a baby. I was in college and partying. I was very young though. I had just turned 18, and got pregnant. We decided to get married and raise this baby going to college 😳 but because of the substances that we had been taking it affected the baby tremendously. Even though I completely stopped the damage was done. I went into labor when I was six months pregnant, I was in an induced coma for two weeks after I delivered with an emergency C-section. We lost the baby after the first week. I didn’t even get to see him 😥 My point is, they like to party and are not ready for a baby.

But what pisses me off is that Selena was offered the same proposal, and she knew that Justin needed to get clean, as well as work on their relationship with the therapist before walking down the aisle. But they were doing these things, and Hailey and her mom and dad knew this. But as soon as Selena wasn’t rocking with the church, they wanted her out and Hailey in. But one thing I have to point out Justin did get cleaned up and stopped the drugs to be able to have a healthy baby. But it was Hailey who wasn’t ready and wanted to do things with her life before having the child. But if you’re not ready to have a baby, why say you would, and you’re willing and you’re ready. And then walk down the aisle say I Do, and change your tune completely.

I guess I’m writing this because I find from my sources that Justin wants to be a dad more than anything. As well as my sources say that he would stop partying if he was to become a father. And it depresses him extremely because he thought that he would be a father by now. I feel like we loop and loop these articles over and over. But the people that did this to him, they got him into this mess has not taken accountability. And I believe Justin stays stuck for several reasons. And what could these reasons be could be? They are the things that Justin has done like I said, in the last article that there’s video, pictures, and a huge secret that stays closed while he’s married. But can be exposed if he was to leave. So he’s stuck. And Justin is so ready to move on. He has been cheating on Hailey his entire marriage. But why does he pick Selena look a likes? Is it because he’s so in love with Selena? Or could it also be that it pisses Hailey the fuck off. And believe it or not Justin does whatever he can to make Hailey miserable so that she will leave and divorce him.

But nothing Justin seems to do will make Hailey leave and divorce Justin. And believe me he has tried. If wearing that outfit to her Krispy Kreme launch, with a pink hat on top like he was a cupcake. If that doesn’t show that he wanted to embarrass her, think of all the times she dressed up stunningly, and here comes Justin wearing a goofy old outfit. Like he rolled out of bed. But lately he’s been putting in more of an effort, why? So it was said that Hailey was Justin’s handler for a long time to keep him on the straight and narrow. Which we all know she’s horrible at because she was supposed to supervisor her cousin Ireland years ago because she was an addict. I do want to point out she went to rehab and went on to have a family, so I applaud her immensely. But Hailey the good Christian girl got her self addicted. So maybe she’s not the best person to handle Justin because we know that he likes to dip into his partying activities.

So who did they bring in to be the new handler for Justin? Ryan, good? That would be a good bet. And not only is he his right hand man, he did his job into getting Justin to stay with Hailey when she returned from Paris. My question is why does a 29 year old man need a handler? I mean yes the guy likes to party but that doesn’t give a reason that he would need a handler to keep him in line. Or is he a handler to keep him away from Selena?

But this time I think the whole charade, went a little too far. Selena came out with her new single with all codes on the wall, and throughout the video in tune, with what was going to happen past present and future, and it was all about Justin and Hailey. Justin came out with the song Moment’s as well put out the video with SZA. Coincidence absolutely not. So where does that leave Selena once again? Well, I would hope it would finally be in the arms of another man. Because she purposely went on the radio station to state that she has been single for five years, over five years really. To let Justin know that she hasn’t been with anybody. But why would she care, why would he care? Unless things are going on under the radar. Or maybe things aren’t under the radar at the Bieber household. Just under the radar to the public. Oh and baby makes three, not what I hear! Sorry to say for Justin 😢

We dive deep into answering all these questions for our members. We have a fun time tonight. We’re doing a zoom group tonight. Where you can ask me any question you would like. We do games, trivia, and so much more. It would be nice to have you check us out for a month you might be pleasantly surprised how much you really would enjoy yourself. Until the next article sending much love.♥️

What Do They Have Against Justin that He Can’t Leave?

Justin has been all over the spectrum when it comes to his marriage, I’m staying, I’m leaving, lately it seemed as if he was leaning more towards the I’m leaving. Looking absolutely miserable most of the time. But as I said before Justin has come out this time looking a tad bit more committed? But is he, or is it more of an act? Or is it that someone close to him has something that would be tragic if it got out.

I have to say I did a lot of digging and here’s what I can say. Selena and Justin as I said was supposed to be the church’s power couple. Selena saw the corruption and bailed. Justin was with Selena at the time so he followed Selena. The church didn’t like that so the church needed a plan B. And that would be where Hailey Baldwin comes in. So basically Stephen Baldwin was close with the church and Carl. He offered Justin to the church and he would keep Justin in line with the money coming, if they would get him to marry Hailey. But they also had something that Justin wasn’t fully aware of. What was it? They had video of him doing….

See the church has two sides, the celebrities side and the people hoping to get to the celebrity side. First off you had to be attracted, you had to be able to afford the dues, and you had to sign a contract that what happened behind those doors stayed there. And these girls were willing to sign away. And what these girls did to get to the celebrity side, let’s just say was horrible. Let alone this being a church. But Justin wild and out of control did things he shouldn’t have and they have this on video. So this leaves him in a situation where he’s not able to leave. But this isn’t his only mistake. Oh and I don’t want to leave out that every celebrity knew these girls would never get to there side.

Next…there was a court case against Justin from 2014. Not one person that he was with testified for him. Yet Selena came to his rescue. I think this girl will love this guy for the rest of her life. I honestly hope not. Because he definitely doesn’t deserve her. She has definitely been through a lot with this guy and yet she has pulled herself up to become Hollywood’s sweetheart. While he’s miserable quite obviously with America’s bully. But maybe they all have the karma they deserve good or bad. I’m not here to judge, just to say what I got from my sources. So in closing, we did a lot of searching to find out what did happen at the Four Seasons, and we got the answer. All I can say is it’s lucky to have someone who loves you that much. But it also leaves you open to putting your life to leave you stuck in other people’s hands that you may not want to be with. So I’ll try to explain as easily as I can. When you do something wrong and people know, you can be put in a position where you lose your life. We’re not done with this situation by far. Just touching the surface.

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What’s Love Got to Do with It?

For goodness sake’s, this has been a crazy couple weeks. Everyone thought that it was over, the end, doomed for Justin and Hailey, otherwise known as Mr. and Mrs. Bieber. All my sources, everyone on the inside, said it’s happening. Justin finally is going to break free, he finally grew a pair of balls, and was going to make himself a free and happy man. I never say never, because it is business as usual, for Mr. and Mrs. Bieber. We all knew that Hailey wasn’t going to give up quite that easy. But many of us were hoping because we wanted to see Justin finally happy. So he decided to stay and give it another whirl with the Mrs. So is he happy?

Sources say that they gave Justin a good peptalk. They pumped him up, they pumped up their marriage. They also made him feel guilty. They said he really never gave Hailey a fair chance. But not once did I hear anyone all Justin about bid happiness. In all my search and sources not one cared if Justin was happy. Not even the closest friends that hang out with him. Why. Or said to Justin… you haven’t been happy for a long time now what do you want? If you’re not happy, what’s going to make you happy? What’s gonna make you want to make music again? Because I know Justin has a lot of music in him. But he just doesn’t have a happy soul. And you got to have a happy soul to make soulful music. Because the music comes from your soul. So I say it again is Justin happy?

I mean, he came out like a big teddy bear wrapped around Hailey wearing a wedding band. Like I said before it wasn’t the original, but it was a wedding band. But s as they’ve been out this week to get in his PR time in, Justin was better but he definitely didn’t show or project a burst of love and happiness. That Laci of project or happiness was actually coming from both Justin of Hailey. Until you saw them on the posts yesterday‘s on social media looking like a couple in love. I mean like truly happy. I know that Justin has mad loyalty for Hailey. I know that he doesn’t want to hurt her, but when you leave someone that’s usually what happens. Just saying. And that’s the problem. Well one of them. But they have several different kinds of problems. One being Justin wants to be a father. And Justin gives in every time and he’s the one that seems to end up with what he’s been longing for since Justin and Haley got married in 2018. In fact, that is why they went to the courthouse and rushed to be married because Hailey said she was willing and ready to have a baby. The only two cents that I’m going to put in, is that you don’t tell someone that you’re ready and willing to have a baby now at this present moment and over five years later still are not ready to have a baby. Because that is deceitful. There’s no and, if’s, or buts about it, that’s full on deceit. I might’ve said this before and it’s repetitive. I do know this. But this trio is in a cycle, and this cycle will not break until someone changes the pattern.

So let’s start with is Justin and Hailey, are they happy? They put on a good show that’s for sure. They’ve been working it for over five years, but leaving many skeptical if it’s actually true love. Justin’s down right miserable most of time. Hailey seems to have hoped she could of won Justin’s heart over, the way he loves Selena. Many people think Justin is still in love with Selena. What do my sources say, all of the above. So do I think this couple happy? Justin and Hailey are going to stay happy with all smiles? I sadly believe they will. And that’s what I get from my sources.

As I end this article for tonight, I don’t know if you know that Hailey has blocked me. As I did research and talk to my sources. If she didn’t manipulate along with her family, Scooter and the pastor Carl along with his wife orchestrate this marriage. And if I saw a happy couple, I think I would let it be. I think that many people would let it go if they saw a happy couple after five years, they’d let them be. But what we see if s mess of a marriage. I honestly don’t think I hear much good from their union. You can say Justin and Selena were a mess, but they were also very young. And Selena has grown and matured beautifully. So ending this quickly so I can post it for now. I’m just leaving it as someone of this three trio has got to make a change for them to have a change. They’re stuck in a cycle. And all we can do if your fan of Justin, Selena or Hailey is hope that they find the strength to move, change to be able to actually live a happy life. Because I don’t see true happiness and I don’t hear that from sources that any of them have true happiness. They all deserve that! Much ♥️